The Law of Attraction is the idea that thought creates reality. I get this. I’ve gotten this for a very long time and I, like the majority, have experienced this time and time again. So, why don’t I put more energy into it? Why am I not scripting my day like the rock star that I was born to be? Just kidding, I don’t want to be a rock star but you get what I am trying to say.
After my experience with Robin Retallick, a founding member of the Law of Attraction Club, http://www.loa-c.com my life changed forever. I was so moved and inspired by Robin’s interview that I managed to shake my inertia, and at the very first opportunity to change my experience in the moment by changing my expectation, I did it!
During the interview with Robin he took me though an exercise called the “Letting Go Process”. The following day I was given an opportunity to change my life. The opportunity was directly related to what I had “let go of” during the process with Robin. The experience that I wanted to let go of was Dave’s ex wife, who for seven years consistently sends aggressive, unpleasant and attacking correspondence, mostly regarding money. I must clearly state here that this is my experience of Dave’s ex-wife and in no way is it any indication of her reality; I assure you! My heart goes out to her but from my perspective, it’s as if she is stuck in a rut from 8 years ago however I was ready to stop this cycle. How do you stop the cycle if you can’t change another person….? The Law of Attraction Club has that answer.
The day following the Letting Go Process Dave received a letter from Child Support Australia which was initiated from his ex-wife wanting clarification on his income. She felt that she required more money and was wondering if there was anyway to have a greater sum sent from Dave. When I pulled the CSA envelope from the mail box, previously my heart would have been beating, I would have thought oh god, what now, here we go again, more stuff about money. This time I thought, oh wonderful, some good news has arrived from CSA. I put the envelope by the computer excited for Dave to open it so we would receive the good news. When he opened it, the letter required that he verify his income. Normally I would have thought, oh god, not more money, it all ready feels like we send so much. BUT this time I was thinking, oh wonderful, I can’t wait for Dave to call and get the great news. Dave called CSA and reported his situation and discovered he had over paid by $7000.00 this year already. What wonderful news, we are not under attack. We had confirmation that we were more than generous with our money and that although the other party had a sense of lack, that lack was not the result of our actions nor did it warrant an attack on us. AHHHHH Thank you. Oh and in case anyone is interested, we are not reducing the amount we pay for child support and we continue paying a higher amount regardless of Child Support’s claim that we have overpaid. I am thrilled the statement “all you do is provide the bare minimum amount of child support” no longer exists in our world. The real trick is to step into that version of reality in which she has changed. She is simply reading from the script we are handing out. All versions of her exist. Now we are choosing the one we want to intersect with.
My dear friend Kathy Upper sent this message on the day that I wrote this.